雅思口语part2《礼貌的人》话题思路解析！

　　雅思口语part2《礼貌的人》话题思路解析!拿到这个题目学生们要如何作答呢?下面一起来看看雅思大神的分享：从我自己学生的反馈来看，《礼貌的人》会比《奇装异服的人》难度稍微小一点，可依旧会出现让人无话可说的状态。

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　　Describe a polite person you know

　　You should say:

　　• Who he/she is

　　• How you know him/her

　　• What the person is like

　　• And explain why he/she is polite

　　纵观这道题，它唯一的难点在于“Polite”这个单词。礼貌看似具体，可一旦要用口语说出来你就会发现你根本看不到它的细节。为此，你想要回答好这道题目，你得先知道究竟什么是“politeness”。

　　一般，礼貌展现在一个人的“言行举止”上。从一个人的说话方式来看，如果他不说脏话，善于倾听，不大声讲话可以说明一个人是礼貌的;从一个人的行为模式来看，如果他注重餐桌礼仪、穿着礼仪说明他也是礼貌的。

　　如果你还想要有更加具体的说明，不如先来了解一下“3 Golden Rules of Politeness”。

　　Number 1: Don’t Impose 不要强迫

　　People have their own personal space. They don’t want this personal space invaded and they don’t want to be pressured into doing something they don’t really want to do.

　　They want to be treated as individuals and, if you impose 强迫别人做某事, if youinvade 侵犯 their personal space, and try to get them to do things they don’t want to do, they might reject you, they might not want to deal with you, and respond to you in a positive way. So, don’t order, don’t command.

　　Rule Number 2: Give Options 给予选择

　　So, if you ask someone to do something, give them options. They have the option to refuse or accept. To do what you want or to say ‘I’m sorry, I’d rather not do that.

　　Again, if you have a suggestion, give people the option to accept or refuse it, or maybe give them the option to think of a suggestion of their own.It’s really important to give people options so they don’t feel trapped 陷入困境

　　Rule Number 3: Make the other person feel good 让别人感觉舒适

　　This does not mean that you have to make people feel really happy. It means that they want to feel positive and in control of the situation, and know that you are respecting them, their opinions and their ideas, and their individuality as a person.